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adultery, being born again, divorce, ecstasy, flesh, Jesus Christ, poems, spirit, the Kingdom of God, the promised land
In advance, some thoughts on exploring the idea of walking in the spirit vs. walking in the flesh …
As for walking in the spirit, indeed, there will be no ordinary days any more because I know for sure that He brings the unexpected things. And there’s something new about His Love that will catch you by surprise (it’s all about those extra things personally provided by Him). What I mean here is in particular the unexpected experience of being transformed from a fleshly-minded person into a spiritually-minded being without doing anything yourself in order to get there. It is the exclusive work of the Holy Spirit to give birth to a new creation in Christ (Jn 3:3-8; 2 Cor 5:17; Gal 6:15).
I guess that God chose the picture of “birth” to remind us of our own helplessness during that process of being born again. We are like babies who are born when it’s time to experience a completely unknown, new world outside the comfortable womb. Another thing which is fully consistent with the image of a newborn baby is that we, too, forget everything about our experiences inside the womb as soon as we have learned to survive in the spiritual promised land (i.e., the Kingdom of God). We learn to walk by the spirit, and we learn to speak another language that not necessarily needs words which could be heard by anyone. But most of all, we learn to forget, namely our past sins, the sins of others, our past pain, our previous likes and dislikes – and last but not least, we forget the desires of the flesh.
In order to illustrate that experience, I’d like to choose a situation taken out of the Bible but described in my own words.
Imagine Jesus, seeing a crowd following Him, and Jesus finally speaking to the people. At first, Jesus announced something that was correspondent to the Ten Commandments, that is, He confirmed that man should not commit adultery (Mt 5:27). I think there were several listeners who probably bowed their head in shame.
Though it was nothing new for the Jews, and certainly there were also men who never committed adultery, but maybe they had thought divorce to be an appropriate means to get rid of an unloved wife in order to marry another woman. Of course, those men behaved properly according to the rules of the Mosaic Law. However, Jesus made clear that He was more rigorous than Moses had been before since He forbade them to divorce (Mt 19:6-9). Ouch!
Yet there was still another group of men who never committed adultery, and who never got divorced – how happy could they be after Jesus’ teaching!? Honestly, I am afraid they were just as unhappy as all the others for Jesus explained,
“But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (Mt 5:28 ESV)
Phew! Except for Jesus there were 100 percent fleshly-minded human beings around. All of them were sinners who needed a savior. They needed the One who stood in front of them. They needed the One who baptizes with the Holy Spirit, so that man is – for example – no longer interested in “committing adultery in his heart”.
Nonetheless, how is it that spiritually-minded persons confronted with the idea of committing adultery can resist without difficulties?
The main reason lies in the fact that God’s Spirit pours His Love more and more into their hearts, so that their fleshly desires die away completely. To use an illustration for this, I’d claim that one could confront them with the most beautiful people in the world, even naked, and they would surely stifle a yawn. Also, the longing to touch another beloved person’s “flesh” (body), that is, hugging, kissing, and more, has died away as well (*). Touching others’ “flesh” merely feels like – if you excuse my diction – hugging a wooden statue. Not very romantic, is it?
The spiritually-minded person really knows that “the body is dead because of sin” (Rom 8:10), and that “the flesh is no help at all.” (Jn 6:63) “It is the Spirit who gives life“ (loc. cit.), and those persons live their life in the Spirit knowing a love that is far better than anything else in this world: it is God’s Spirit who loves them spiritually – twenty-four-seven…
The puzzle of life can be complete when one has found the missing piece – in Christ’s Spirit. To put it briefly: There’s nothing to compare with the greatness of these feelings that we’re pursuing when we know Christ (or rather, when we are “known by God”, 1 Cor 8:3). Since it is very difficult to describe these blessed experiences of spiritual ecstasy in plain language, I often write poems about it.
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(*) The apostle Paul pointed to that fact when he said, “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman,” (1 Cor 7:1). But since there were not so many spiritual believers in Corinth, like in Gal 6:1, the seventh chapter of Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians got some more verses. 😉
Michael said:
Susanne, I just found that your earliest blog had never received a comment from anyone as of yet. Sooooo, here I am taking your “orphan” under my wing. 😉
You wrote:
“Nonetheless, how is it that spiritually-minded persons confronted with the idea of committing adultery can resist without difficulties? The main reason lies in the fact that God’s Spirit pours His Love more and more into their hearts, so that their fleshly desires die away completely. To use an illustration for this, I’d claim that one could confront them with the most beautiful people in the world, even naked, and they would surely stifle a yawn. Also, the longing to touch another beloved person’s “flesh” (body), that is, hugging, kissing, and more, has died away as well (*). Touching others’ “flesh” merely feels like – if you excuse my diction – hugging a wooden statue. Not very romantic, is it?”
Hmmmm. There is definitely something different about the love of God and carnal love when it pours forth from our hearts for another. Paul wrote, “Greet one another with a holy kiss.” It stands to reason then that there are “holy kisses” and there are “unholy kisses”– those that have a spirit of lust behind them. There are times that I have so experienced the love of God for another one of His saints that I wanted to kiss them on the cheek. Is that wrong? Paul said that nothing of itself is unclean, but it is what is in the heart of the doer that makes it unclean (Romans 14:4). But for me to kiss another person that is not my wife on the mouth? Well, I do not have the faith to do that without my conscience being hurt.
I remember one brother unexpectedly came up to me and kissed me right on the mouth. He had the faith to do that (no, he is not gay), but I did not. So now we have another problem. Love demands that we not flaunt our faith in the presence of one who is “weaker” in the faith. The love of God always puts the other person first and seeks never to offend anyone unnecessarily.
God’s love is a powerful force and an open display of that love was very common in the early church, so much so that they had what they called “love feasts.” These took place when a group of the believers gather together around a common meal in the name of the Lord and I am sure that there was some hugging and kissing on the cheek going on among them as they demonstrated the love of God in their hearts. This is very common even today in many parts of the world, but in our “over sexed” western culture this is not so common among Christians for fear of it being more than the purest kind of love that God has for us.
I agree with you that as we grow into the fullness of Christ that sexual attraction for others dies away. Paul was able to contain his bodily drives without any problem and said that being celibate was a gift from God. He also acknowledged that not everyone had that gift and that it was better to marry than to spend our days burning with lust. It is interesting that this was the way he advised to deal with this problem instead of giving the church a law that said, “Thou shalt not lust.”
Now it is evident that no one is justified before God by the law, for “The righteous shall live by faith.” (Gal 3:11, ESV2011)
God bless you dear sister. ⭐
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Susanne Schuberth (Germany) said:
Thank you for your thought-provoking thoughts on here, Michael. To be honest, just now I am totally blank-minded and do not know how to reply to your deliberations. The only thing that came up in my mind was that a ‘holy kiss’ might be something that has been nudged by the Holy Spirit, not by the carnal nature. Whether it is a mere spiritual experience without the body involved or not, I don’t know. May God reveal it to us in His time.
May God bless you too, my brother. ⭐
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Michael said:
Susanne, as we keep our hearts and eyes fixed on Him and His love, I am sure He will reveal more and more ways to share His love with one another to us in the days ahead. God is very original in His dealings with us and His love should be original as well.
But, as it is written, “What no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love him”— (1Cor 2:9, ESV2011) ❤
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Susanne Schuberth (Germany) said:
I love that Scripture, Michael. It says a lot without disclosing the mystery. Paul only gave us some hints…
May God keep our ❤ s and eyes fixed on Him – always.
Susanne 🐱
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